What to know before you go

Attending a wedding at Ocean Kave in Westward Ho! is a truly unforgettable experience. Set against the dramatic backdrop of the North Devon coastline, this award-winning venue offers breathtaking views, golden sunsets, and a warm welcome for every guest. But what should you know before stepping into this coastal paradise as a wedding guest? Here’s your guide to wedding etiquette at Ocean Kave—covering everything from photos to fashion, and everything in between.

📸 To Post or Not to Post? The Unwritten Rule of Wedding Photos

We get it—Ocean Kave’s views are Instagram gold. From the windswept clifftops to the candlelit barn, every corner is picture-perfect. But before you start snapping and tagging away, it’s important to pause and consider the couple’s preferences.

Always check with the couple before posting photos on social media. Many couples choose to have an unplugged ceremony, where they ask guests to refrain from taking pictures during the vows. This allows the professional photographer—who the couple have likely invested in significantly—to capture the key moments without distractions.

After the ceremony, there are plenty of opportunities for guests to capture their own memories. Just be mindful of timing and make sure you're not blocking the photographer or drawing attention away from the couple. And if you’re lucky enough to witness one of Ocean Kave’s famous sunsets? That’s a perfect time for a selfie or group shot—just don’t forget to tag the venue (with permission, of course!).

👠 How to Look Stylish Without Sacrificing Comfort

Ocean Kave may sound like a dramatic, cave-like hideaway—but don’t worry, you won’t need a torch or hiking boots to find your seat! While it’s set in a rugged coastal location, the venue is fully accessible with no tricky terrain or steps to navigate.

When choosing your outfit, opt for style that works with nature, not against it. The ceremony lawn and photo areas are grassy, so avoid stilettos which can sink into the ground and damage wooden floors indoors. Instead, choose wedges, block heels, or smart flats that keep you steady on your feet and ready to dance the night away.

🎨 What Colours Should You Avoid?

Weddings are a celebration of love, not a fashion show—though it’s always nice to look your best. While you’re encouraged to dress in a way that feels authentic and confident, it’s important to avoid certain wardrobe pitfalls.

Steer clear of white, ivory, or anything that could be mistaken for a wedding dress, unless the couple have specifically asked for a themed or all-white dress code. This day is all about the bride (or both partners, if applicable), and wearing white can unintentionally shift focus away from them.

If you love bold colours or statement prints, go for it! Just make sure your outfit feels celebratory, not competitive.

🎩 To Hat or Not to Hat? That Is the Question

Weddings are one of the few occasions where a great hat or headpiece is absolutely encouraged—and what better place to show it off than by the sea?

If you’re planning to wear a hat to an Ocean Kave wedding, choose something stylish yet practical. Consider the coastal breeze (which can be strong!) and pick a hat that stays put without too much fuss. You’ll also want to be mindful of size: while large hats are glamorous, they can obstruct views during the ceremony or at dinner. A fascinator or well-secured headband can be a chic alternative.

Final Thoughts

A wedding at Ocean Kave is a once-in-a-lifetime experience—for the couple and for you. By being thoughtful in what you wear, how you behave, and how you engage with the day, you’ll help create a joyful, respectful atmosphere that everyone can enjoy.

Most of all? Bring your best self, celebrate with love, and enjoy the magic of a North Devon wedding by the sea.